For us, April is the month of oxymoron's. There are days of happiness, days of celebration for holidays based in miracles, birthdays of those we love and of course there is tax day. April 15 is a hard day around here because since we are self employed the whole tax thing is a pain, dread, death sentence, day of mourning....you get the idea. Well, this most cheerful day also happens to be my husband's birthday. It is also my beautiful niece's b-day. I am glad they (whether they are or not) were born on this day. It gives me something to be happy about on an otherwise pretty sucky day. Of course, Jay says it isn't to great to have his b-day on that day. He feels that trip to the post office dropping off the check is much worse than even turning older. For his birthday he worked, did the tax thing and then we took him out to dinner for BBQ...his favorite! You know you can never get the Texan out of a man. We then had cake and ice cream and he opened up his gifts. His favor...