Skip to main content

The lessons of life

I have felt like summer has just been buzzing by. There are so many things I want to do with the kids. It is my last summer with them all home. Unfortunately, everyday pretty much has been at the doctor or dentist or recovering from one of those procedures. I feel like summer is slipping through my fingers.

After Monday, we will only have one doctor's visit left. So I have made plans. BIG PLANS. I am going to take the kids to a ranch that our church owns where they raise cattle. They butcher the cattle and send the meat to the poor all over the world. Families can go and work there. They can help repair fences, build them, move hay, clean the barn....the list goes on. I went there with Austin for his Senior service day. It was awesome. Maylin went too and loved it. I want to go to a water park. I want to go to our cabin. I want to go hiking. I want to go horseback riding. I want to just be together.

Today, I took Alex to the Chiropractor. He hurt his back playing tackle b-ball on the tramp. The things boys do! (So, I know a certain family member who is screaming over those last two sentences!) :) This Chiropractor is a father to one of Alex's friends. They played football together. While there they told us Alex's football coach's son, and he was a fellow player, was just diagnosed with a rare bone cancer. They had to amputate his leg. Alex was heart sick. They were good football buds.

Alex is my worrier. He has always worried about someone around him dying or even himself. I think living in our house with Austin has done that too him. He has just fretted over his friend all day today. They are having a fund raiser for the boy tomorrow and Alex is going to help. He keeps asking me to find out what the boy's chances are. I looked online. They weren't good. Told Alex I couldn't really find anything and every case is different. I don't need my little worrier to worry any more than he already does.

Hearing this news also made me fret over how fast summer is going. It is so true that life changes on a dime. Everyday really needs to be lived like it was the last. Time can't be wasted. I guess I feel like some of my days are.

Comments

Lisa~~ said…
Sending good thoughts for Alex's friend. Enjoy your family days, the busy ones and the ones where you're just together doing nothing special.
Circe said…
I know, thanks for the reminder. It's true. I don't want summer to slip away. I love it too much!
Nate said…
I love that you want to spend the summer doing things with your children! It was fun to see you at the picnic:) Can't wait to see you.

Popular posts from this blog

Did I just hear that?

Today I was at W*lM*rt and I had the WEIRDEST experience. I can't wait to hear what you all have to say about it. I was at the self check out and the worker that handles those came over to Nini and put her hands on Nini's cheeks and literally put her nose against Nini's nose. Okay....don't know you, plus it is serious cold and flu season. I pulled the cart back quickly. The lady was talking to Nini and asking her how old she was and telling her how cute she is (she is that). Then she said to me, "where did you get her from?" That question threw me. I have been asked where she is from, what nationality she is, but never, "where did you get her from?" I said China, but was thinking, "does she think I got her from a store or something?" This was just the beginning of what was the MOST outrageous conversation I have ever been apart of. She asked me her name. I told her and she said, "Thank you! It makes me so happy to hear that name."...

Maylin's room

Here is an update on painting. The doors continue to be a nightmare. We don''t have doors on the girls bathroom and no doorknobs on any of the other doors. Hopefully next week. I love everything else. Many of you asked about the glaze in the kitchen. It is an oil based glaze that comes in black, white, brown. You roll it on with a small roller and then take it off with a rag, by blotting it. You can make it darker or lighter depending on how much you put on and how much you take off. Here are pictures of Maylin's room. I was scared to make a change with 2 colors, but I think I like it. I don't know if you can tell but on the pink paint it is a wash (first white swirly, then pink) with light white flowers like the top pink ones. I picked words to go around her room that may inspire her. The Chinese translation is underneath. Of course, we used Meng, that was her first name...Meng ni and they called her Nini. The words are in vinyl and the flowers were painted using a pa...

Happily ever after

NieNie Dialogues: April 15, 2019 Christian is the most important person in Stephanie's life. She made this post about him. She wrote about how much she loved him and he loved her. Every year she dedicates a song to him as they enter another year as husband and wife. She said, "Everyday I pray to God, thanking him for Christian. I thank God that he is my husband, my protector, and greatest defender. I thank God that Christian loves and respects me.......And I thank God that I will be with Christian forever and even to infinity and beyond." I am not married, but I related to this post because I love my dad. He is my protector and my provider. He really takes care of our family. He is so great. I can tell my mom loves him too. Even though it embarrasses me, I love to watch my parents hug and kiss. I am glad we are sealed together. After reading this post, I decided I needed to write in my journal characteristics I want in a husband. These are the things I wrote: Must l...